Taipan wrote: Mon Apr 13, 2026 10:54 am
I take your point about how to fill your day, which as I said, I enjoy what I do and would miss doing it. My Dad got an early, golden handshake retirement, after working for Fords for over 40 years. He was a man with many hobbies and when I asked him how he was getting on with retirement, he said he never knew how he had the time to work!

He said a lot of people he knew had all manner of plans on what they would do when they retire, but ended up doing little more than going from their bed to their chair and watching tv all day. Grim.
A couple of years back, I got a 4 day week approved but never took it in the end.
I was a bit like your dad. Quit a job at 55, thought I'd havea bit of a break then pick up a contract here and there for a bit of variety. 2 months later, on the way home from an interview, I thought 'How am I going to find time to go to work?'
I had a range of things that I'd thought 'I'll do x or y when I have time' - none of which involved gardening or DIY* - and I'd set about doing some of them and was thoroughly enjoying my new, busy self.
I know a few blokes that retired and felt lacking in purpose and like a spare part and/or a full time handyman/decorator at home. At least a couple seem to keep dragging their reluctant spouses on increasingly tortuous 'holidays' so that they 'in charge' again - sorting routes/itineraries/accomodation etc etc.
People kept asking me what are you doing for holidays to which my reply was 'I'm on holiday every day'.
* it did involve buying a piano and a tenor sax though.
